Bride Decides To Charge Guests Who Didn’t RSVP To Her Invitation

Bride Decides To Charge Guests Who Didn’t RSVP To Her Invitation

Wacky By Tricky Brick / March, 29, 2024

This bride-to-be took to a Facebook wedding group to ask people whether it would be “too rude” to put tables separately for all the unexpected guests. Explaining herself, she wrote that if she decided to arrange a food truck, they will have to buy their food. However, if guests were given individual plates, those who hadn’t RSVP would simply not eat. She even supported her idea, saying that her family was kind enough to invite people to her wedding without asking her.

The bride elaborated her plan and wrote that the shame table would be one of those boring folding tables with no decoration. In addition, she said that name cards reading ‘I did not RSVP but still wanted to come’ (or celebrate instead of come to make it look less mean) would be put up on these tables.

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The bride later updated the post by making a change that she would not call the separate table a shame table (more of a joke).It would be having a cloth on top of it, but it shall be arranged for all the guests who did not RSVP.“I appreciate that I should not shame them, I just don’t want to pay for the extra food”, she continued.

After uploading this post on the wedding group, the woman got various different reactions from other future brides. Her idea left people in the comment section divided. Some people thought her plan was pretty accurate while others felt she was being way too impolite.

One user asked if she would like to call it the ‘wedding crashes table’. A second person bashed her saying that her plan was too rude and was not so classy. Agreeing to this remark, another user’s reply read, “Yes it’s too mean. Your guests have lives. They may have to cancel last minute, they might not be able to RSVP because of reasons unknown to you. Don’t be that person.”

A third commented that he would never even bother to set up such a table, at least not until last minute, if it was extremely obligatory, if at all. A few others agreed on the opinion that they should not be expecting the same courtesy as everyone else, who did RSVP. Someone else wrote that it was a little ungenerous, yet she loved the plan. In fact, she also felt it was discourteous to not RSVP but still show up. Another user expressed her thoughts that the idea was ‘savage’ and she might even use it, but could be presented subtly.

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